I wrote this last year and can't think of a better way to say it:
Happy New Year to you all. The ones I read, the ones I love, all my friends and all of you who take the time to read me. Whether you comment or not, I can see you're there. Thank you.
'Scoakat' rhymes with 'Snow Hat'! - - Just my thoughts on music, humor, our life in Madison and anything else I feel like.

So, am I selfish? Do I have OCD with anxieties? A form of agoraphobia? Or am I just an ass?

The band is celebrating the 20th anniversary of their debut album, Garbage. It has been recently remastered and released along with many of the b-sides from that era. I almost ordered it but there wasn't anything new on it, just remastered, and that wasn't enough for me. I do like Garbage, especially because they are from Madison here, but I'm not fanatical about them and they are not what I normally listen to and these days I pick and choose who I spend my money on. We paid for two tickets to the show, there's our support.
It's almost the middle of October and I haven't posted much of anything lately. Well, I could do a This-And-Thats post but it would probably be rather short. I could rant about the Wisconsin Badgers pathetic offense or rave about the undefeated Green Bay Packers, but I'm not a sports writer. So about all that's left that has happened lately is getting a new refrigerator. So be it!
And tomorrow the garage door guy will be out to fix the spring so I can use the big door again. I do know it is something I could most likely do myself, but I never have and when you get that spring wound it's got lots of scary power. Yeah, I'll just let the pro do it.
I don't want to spend a whole lot of time on it, but it was not the best dinner in this series that we've attended. The rep for Deschutes Brewery was a likable guy who had the knowledge of the brewery but had bad timing for his between course talks. Normally the waitresses have a routine; serve the featured beer, serve the course, remove plates and glasses as finished, and repeat for all 5 or 6 courses. The rep has everyone's attention when the featured beer is being served, not when everybody gets the paired course of food. There was some good swag included - pint glass, can/bottle coolie, sticker and what is a wide rubber band with their name printed on it that I think they want to be a wristband - I didn't say it was all good swag.
The washer/dryer stand is pretty cool. It's only 12 inches high but makes a world of difference getting laundry in and out - or will. I've been busy (okay - lazy on Sunday, but that's what Sundays are for!) since then so I finally got them balanced and hooked up again tonight. Essentially, the stand doubles the height of the opening from when they were on the floor. And that means a lot when you have a back like mine, but I still keep an old office chair down there so I don't bend so much.
I enjoy those days spent working on a project in the garage for hours at a time. Playing music and making sawdust are always fun, but the accomplishment of creation is nice, too. I had one of those days yesterday, creating a stand for the washer and dryer and also a small platform for the freezer. We have not had water in the basement for quite some time, and when we have had water it just runs toward the drain so this may not be necessary for flooding, but why take a chance? And the washer/dryer stand will also lessen the bending.
The washer/dryer stand assembled almost exactly as I had figured in my head and crude drawings. Once I figure out the dimensions the length of the pieces falls right into place. I started by cutting the 4x4 legs to an approximate length then pulled out the table saw to help get flat ends. Well, I got the table saw out but the blade would not raise. I tried taking it apart but could not find the problem to fix. This is probably one of the cheapest table saws available, I got good use out of it over the past few years. I saved the blade but the rest is now junk. I made a quick dash to my favorite local DIY center but I did not want the same cheap one, the next step up only the floor model was to be had, then they just got pricier. After considering how little I would need it for this project, I left without a purchase and made do with the circular saw and a steady hand - very well, too. Still, with my wife's permission I just may get another table saw by the end of the week.
The road was closed in front of our house yesterday as many members of the greater neighborhood got together and painted the street. It even made the local news and papers today because painting a street is actually very unusual. This has been a couple years in the making, from individuals getting the idea in their heads and sharing with others, then getting our alderman to introduce a law to allow streets to be painted, to getting a design approved - it is abstract as no symbols or words are allowed - and actually receiving a city grant to help facilitate it happening. I think we have some active and motivated younger families in this neighborhood and we are very happy and appreciative to benefit from them and their work.
I talked to a few of the neighbors as we were in and out that morning, and waved as I carried loads of branches to the curb. I actually would not have minded helping with the painting yesterday afternoon but for my normal physical deficiencies that acted up after the tree stuff. I don't feel too bad, all those young dads on the street are younger and more fit than me! When I was finished with all my trimming, neighbor Dave and I did stroll down to the corner to view their progress and visit for a bit. They were down there until almost dark last night painting, eating, socializing and cleaning up. Today, with the road still closed off, they have been having fun with a kiddie pool and squirt guns and kids all over the road.
In the southeast corner, left, there is a small tree across the fence and behind the neighbor's garage that has been growing wildly, and vines have been reaching out and getting into our lilacs. I trimmed that rather easily but did not go over the fence line. Our lilac is close so I will have to keep an eye on it. There's a couple feet now between them so hopefully no vines shall cross but I know they will try.
The southwest corner above the compost bin was a different story. I've watched that crab apple tree grow up into the phone lines and now get covered in vines. The vines are actually killing the half of the tree on his side yet nothing has been done to stop it. Compounding the issue is another behind-the-owner's-garage tree that is growing out of control kitty corner behind the compost bin. Between them they created a vine highway into our burning bush that I have been trying to get back into shape since being allowed to overgrow before we bought the house and since it almost completely died in the drought of 2012. I must have pulled a couple hundred feet of vines down and you can still see them hanging from the trees. As a nice side effect, the area is much more open back there, no longer under an unwanted canopy.
So after about a gallon of sweat on this hot and humid day what is left is a big pile of neatly stacked branches out front and even more free firewood for me. In the picture the two on the right are from my neighbor's branches that fell a week or two ago, the rest are from today. Not a lot of big stuff but the smaller stuff burns, too. Probably at least 40 bucks of wood there if you bought it at a store, chopped and cut. Oh, and many thanks to neighbor Dave who let me borrow his pole saw today.
I also finished painting the last bit of the foundation this morning. We had been working on it on and off all Summer now, around the weekends and the weather. The new paint is only in the lower right of this picture, for a before and after. The missing paint came off when I power washed it. Now, black as Swedish Death Metal, it matches the garage trim and window trim much better. 
Yes, I posted the official video above, but I've been more a fan of watching their live stuff on Youtube, as I always am. She belts it out with the best of singers. You can hear it on the album but it impressed me more seeing it in live videos. That is what drew me to them most, her voice on these recent songs. Of course I have gone back to their earlier stuff to see if I had been missing anything, but no, I had not really missed anything. Like I mentioned, I did not like the look or sound of Halestorm before this album (okay, except for maybe one or two songs). And actually, the old man in me doesn't care for the 'Lzzy' without an 'i.' But I do like that she has a more natural look now and the band seems to have a lot of fun on stage. They have talked about how recording this album was different and heavier than their earlier stuff, and I would have to agree. I have the album version with 16 songs and most of the songs are very strong, indeed. I would not be surprised if they get a few more singles off this album. Of course, that could lead to overexposure and burnout. But I don't listen to radio often - what do I know?
I can't recall the exact timeline of things back then, Sammi and I drank a lot. But she wound up getting married around the same time I started dating my wife now. My wife was my date for the wedding. Around that time or shortly before is when we started being not so close as before. And it was perfectly understandable. We were both growing older and involved with other people. We remained in touch, then she got a divorce after about a year or two. We had been in touch less and less and then one day my number for her didn't work anymore. Suddenly I had no way to reach my best friend of the early and mid nineties. And it remained that way for somewhere around 16 or 18 years. Until 3 weeks ago.
The core group should not have come as a surprise if I would have really considered. It was the jocks and the cheerleaders, of course. They did all seem nice enough - and I recognized many, but not most. And that was the same for me, few recognized me, most not. But everyone was very cordial to me and my wife. It did kind of seem like many of these people were still friends and had seen each other at least somewhat recently. Well, we had made the trip so I felt I should also make the effort, but, um, do you know that feeling when your talking to someone who is just... elsewhere? Someone who is trying to be nice but is just not interested? I got that a few times. And I can't say I blame them because I may have been that way, too. At least everyone's cordiality recognized the effort made by the other. But when it comes down to it, I had barely talked to most of these attendees in high school, we don't have much to discuss now. At least at not this time and place. Never rule out paths crossing.
And then there were a few guys that seemed like regular dudes. Given time and a different atmosphere we would probably get on well and do what guys do. That would also have to include my friend Gary, that I enjoyed seeing last week. It was nice to see him once more while he was here in Wisconsin.![]() |
| Mike, Me and Gary |
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| 1993, Gary's Wedding. His brother Greg on right. |
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| Very early 90's at the Black Bear Lounge. Figured out who the ham was yet? |
So next weekend is the 30th class reunion. As I've mentioned, I have never been to a reunion of my class. Most all of those I graduated with I have not seen since - and haven't missed. So, why am I going? Well, I already paid the fifty bucks. And it has been 30 years now. I did not grow up with these people, having moved to town for the seventh grade, and I've always felt like an outsider with them. I expect I will feel much the same at the reunion, but I don't have anything more than that 50 bucks and my time next weekend invested in this. I will go, smile a lot (hopefully genuinely), shake a lot of hands and make it back home long before I turn into a pumpkin. So, besides wanting to see Gary, I guess I am going for the novelty of the occasion. My expectations are purposely low so I shall not be disappointed.

My wife and I made the 15 minute walk down to AtwoodFest this afternoon for some food, music and festivities. We didn't stay as long as we did last year, but it was a nice walk on a hot Summer day to a festive atmosphere. Sure, our feet hurt when we got back, so of course we resolved to walk more, especially to this neighborhood of quality local businesses. There are several nice restaurants, bar and grills, chocolate shops, art galleries and other eclectic offerings in this area. Oh, and can't forget the ice cream shop!
The first beer I was very familiar with because it was the quarter barrel we got for our party a month or two ago, Capital Amber. Ambers are good for a middle-of-the-road type beer. There was also an IPA for one course. I've said it before but I just don't like the perfume-y smell and taste of IPAs and unfortunately they are the popular thing now, I blame the hipsters. At least the hipsters that have graduated from - gag - Pabst Blue Ribbon. Pabst was a cheap beer that my dad drank when I was a kid, and it's still cheap but somehow super popular again. And then there was also what seems to be a mandatory coffee flavored beer. Again, I'm not a fan, but I was in the minority. I've never been a coffee drinker because I hate the taste and putting it in beer does not change that for me. There were no sour beers presented last night, I don't think Capital even makes one. My wife and I have been paying attention and seeking them out recently. Who knew we'd like the sour beers, but we do. No, whiskey, I have not forgotten about you...