A. Do you wear a mask?
Yes, thank you, go to paragraph B.
No. Really? Go to paragraph G.
B. Do you wear a cloth or paper mask?
Cloth mask, go to paragraph C.
Paper mask, go to paragraph D
C. How often do you wash your mask(s)?
Often, constantly, or similar go to paragraph F.
Rarely, if ever, go to paragraph G.
D. How much wear before disposing of your mask?
Constant, multiple days, go to paragraph G.
Minimal, disposable is disposable after all, go to paragraph F.
F. Thank you. You are doing well but always strive for better.
G. What the hell is wrong with you? Clean up and respect your fellow man, for a change.
Okay, you get the idea, but there's more here and elsewhere. Blue Witch brought up the topic recently on her blog, and she is correct, this should be talked about more and correct protocols discussed. And I don't think either one of us is above mask-shaming. Masks are nothing but icky things on your face if not used correctly. And by correctly I also mean covering both your nose and your mouth. At the same time!
On the other side of the fence is another blogger who I shall not name, but is in my right column*. I've followed them for a very, very long time now so while I still check in over there I usually refrain from commenting. I have a feeling I would be shouted down anyway as I'm not really debate team material. At all.
One of my favorite sayings about masks likens it to pee: Imagine you're standing in front of someone, facing each other, and you're both naked. If he pees, you get wet. If you wear pants and he pees, you still get wet, but not as bad. If he wears pants and pees he gets himself wet. We can't help but pee, or in this case breathe. Respect others and keep yourself contained, for chrissake.
I've not addressed my own mask wearing here yet, but I will now. I don't wear a mask 98% of the time, but that's because I'm at home 98% of the time now, if not more. I don't wear a mask outside in my own yard, but I don't run into other people in my own yard. I don't wear my mask on neighborhood walks, unless we have to get near people, which is a good reason to avoid the bike paths. I don't wear a mask in my car, I wear a mask when I get to my destination, outside of home. Anywhere I have to go outside the home, like just regular errands, I wear a mask.
We've had exactly 10 friends over to the house effectively all of this year, and all for firepits. Social distancing is pretty easy in the back yard as the most at a time we have over is 2 other people. I have required masks if they need to go into the house, and all have happily complied or not had to go inside. No large gatherings here, and not likely for the holidays, either.
When this first started I ordered a pack of cloth masks, and used them, and washed them. But the washing made them shrink so they were tight and uncomfortable, so I bought a box of 50 individually wrapped black paper disposable masks. Much more comfortable for my big head. Now, if I only use one for a few minutes then I have been known to throw it in the glove box and use it again, but keep in mind that one I used for just a few minutes one day may sit for over a week until I use it again. I'll probably get some grief for that, and it may be deserved. But at only 40-50 cents a pop I have no qualms about tossing them and using a new one for most things, either.
How is your mask use? How's mine?
*Update: I removed this link from my right column on November 18, 2020. I can no longer support or promote his writing by leaving it there.